This post is in no way a shoot at anyone or made out of anger. It simply is to inform people about what comments are irritating and what is helpful. This only pertains to anyone that has had no trouble having children or who have not tried yet. If you are on of the unfortunate few who face the same problems I do then you are more then welcome to say whatever you want.
What not to say I know it's hard but... The thing is you don't know so you can't say that. I know how you feel... Again something you don't really know. It will happen I know it... There is no grantee in life that I will have a child so you can't say that. Be patient... You be patient after two and a half years. We weren't really trying to get pregnant it just happened... While I am happy for you and would never wish my problems on you I dont need to be reminded about how fertile you are.
What to say I love you. I support you. I am here for you. I heard about this treatment... I am not an expert and I welcome any suggestions. I'm pregnant... People are afraid to tell me they are pregnant and it maybe because I come off as bitter but I promise I would rather hear from you then through a friend or Facebook. I may be sad for myself but I will be happy for you.
Every woman out there with fertility issues may not feel the same way I do. To be honest I personally only know one other person that is having fertility issues. I do not speak for everyone I only speak for me.
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